Ask Emma 3

Hi Emma,

You may remember that we chatted for a long time me, M, told you that I want my wife to cuckold me but she doesn't want. I told you that I want her to cuckold me with her previous boyfriend, V, who is 40. She is also 40.

When we were going out I allowed her to make love to him many times and I even ate all the cum he left in her a few times when she returned home. Once I returned from work early in the morning and went to pick her up at 7am at his house. She came and we went to a hotel and when I undressed her she had dried cum stains on her belly and a red spot where he had sucked her on her nable. I was excited and made love to her there and then lying on his dried sperm. She was well up to it then and we enjoyed many months of it.

One night he wanted her to go and spend the night with him but I was with her. She asked permission but I told her that I wanted her tonight but would allow her to spend until midnight with him and I will pick her up. She agreed and I drove her to his house but he insisted he wanted her all night or none at all. He asked me up and I told him that she could stay till midnight but he refused. Since then he has never called again and it went quiet.

That was from 1989-1990. I suspect she has had meetings with him thereafter and told her about it but she has denied it although I told her it was ok to tell me. I keep asking her over and over to do it taking breaks so she does not detest me. I then revived it again for her in 2000 with a doctor who she told me that has been telling her sweet words. He is very fat and she said that she did not think that she would like that.

Then came what I thought was my opportunity. Her first boyfriend went to her work and told her that he wanted her. She said told him that she would ask me first thinking that would send him away. She did and I told her that I was excited about it but that she and him needed to be discreet and went to lengths telling her how to make it look innocent. I would drive with her to a expensive hotel and let her slip away and pick her up. She appeared very excited and after a week she told me that she is wondering if that is what I really wanted. I told her yes. When he came back a few days after she told her yes but he had to get a room in the hotel. He said that he would not do that because it was too expensive and she got turned off saying that I have taken her there on no special occassion and he has refused. He blew it.

Lately I told her that I still wanted and she told me that if that happenned she will have to choose the man because she will have to open her legs. That excited me. I even called her V for her to talk to him but he was not there. I am trying but to no avail. I have sent emails to V using her email address telling him how much she wants him and he is saying that it is not right etc although he would want it she is married and he should stay out. I am wondering if I am losing the battle. Is there still hope you think?

I am hereby asking you to send her an email telling her that I have chatted to you and that you are in that lifestyle and how you and your husband cope with it. Tell her the good things about the lifestyle and how to cope with the problems that may arise. Tell her that we cuckolds do not stop loving our wives but just love to share them especially if their lover's had a big cock. Please be very graphic and honest with her as I want you to help me get her into bed with another man. Please help this desperate cuck. Her name is S. and her email is SXXXXX@yahoo.com.

Affectionately Yours,
M


Hi M,

Thanks for letting me use your letter as part of Ask Emma. I know you were basically looking for support and encouragement from me so let me just say upfront that you'll probably be disappointed with what I have to say. You might just want to stop reading now.

I thought a lot about your detailed story and whether or not it was real. Because it is so detailed and complicated I suspect at least some of it is real. If it is indeed true, then you don't want me writing to your wife! Trust me!

You called her old boyfriend to try to convince him to fuck her?

You used her email account to write to him?

You want me (a total stranger) to write to her and try to convince her to cuckold you?

Do these things seem normal to you? They don't to me.

If I were a friend of your wife, I would be asking her why she hadn't dumped you yet for being a manipulative jerk who thinks she is a sex toy.

You have NO RIGHT to EXPECT that she will cuckold you. This is an EXTREME fantasy. If she doesn't want to do it, then back off. Leave her alone.

You wrote me this letter after chatting with me ONCE. Why? Do you think cuckolding is a religion and I am trying convert women to it? Why would I care if your wife cuckolds you? Why would I try to help you manipulate her to do something she doesn't want to do? How would that be a good thing to do?

In the beginning she played a bit with this game. That was a LONG TIME ago and she was young and you weren't married. It ended because you decided that you needed to give her a curfew. You decided you needed CONTROL of the situation so you said, Okay but you have to be home by 12. Who are you? Her father? It is not up to you or her ex. It should be up to HER.

She is absolutely right about the hotel. YOU BLEW IT! Not her ex.

How romantic you are! "Oh baby, I want you to fuck your ex in this swank hotel so I can get my rocks off but I wouldn't dream of actually PAYING for the hotel room. Your lover should do that. And I would never take you to an expensive hotel myself say for your birthday or anniversay, just when I want you to fuck your ex while I jack myself off."

I'm sure you aren't (or at least I hope you aren't) after her all the time about this but from what you write I would think she's not real happy about your on-going requests for this fantasy.

She's told you she might do it if she meets the right guy and decides herself. THAT IS GREAT! You have no business to ask for or expect more.

If you love this woman, let her choose the guy to cuckold you with WHEN and IF SHE WANTS! Otherwise, leave her alone about it.

Emma